Wednesday, 28 December 2011

Faithful Or Fearful - Whose Side Are You on?

"When you are about to step off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing that one of two things will happen; there will be something solid to stand on or you will immediately learn to fly." -
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As hard as I try, I can't seem to BE in two places at once. Have you noticed that? You can't be on vacation and in your office at the same time. (My husband and I joke about inventing a cloning machine so we can leave our clones at work while we stay at the beach!)
It's equally true that I can't DO two things at once, either.
"Now, wait a minute," you say. "I'm famous for multi-tasking."
Well... not really. You can certainly have more than one project 'on your mind', but if you pay close attention to yourself, you are really only doing multiple tasks sequentially.
If I'm trying to listen to an MP3 teaching and playing computer games, my brain flips back and forth: sometimes catching the information, sometimes playing the game. As a result, I might eventually win a game 1Y0-A05 practice exam a solitaire, but I certainly didn't comprehend most of the teaching.
The same rule applies to emotions. You cannot be happy AND sad, angry AND loving, grateful AND selfish. One emotion cancels the other out. They can happen sequentially, but they don't happen at the same time.
Why is that knowledge important to you?
Because it gives you power.
You see, you can control which emotion to focus on, just like you choose which task to work on or which place to be. That's right, you CHOOSE. Anger cancels love; happy eliminates sad.
Take it a step further. Are you fearful or faithful? Stop and think about it for a minute before you answer. Many of us believe
There's an old expression about 'sitting on the fence'. Basically, it means you are not making any progress because you will not pick a side. So there you sit... caught in the middle. Your faith doesn't work because you keep short-circuiting it with your fear. Prayer becomes ineffective; results don't materialize.
To receive the full benefit and blessing of Faith, you must stay on that side of the fence. Faith and fear do not mix. They are like oil and water. They cannot occupy the same space 7004 at the same time. So, hang on to your faith. Believe in the outcomes you desire. Stay in Faith and don't let fear, doubt or worry steal your blessing. You choose...

Fake It Till You Make It and Have Fun Along the Way

For those of you who have heard the term fake it till you make it, I am here to tell you that you fall into two categories. One group consists of the eye-rollers. These guys hear buzzwords and 1Y0-A08 practice exam affirmations such as these and roll their eyes collectively. For them, there is no such thing as "making it."
They come from the cynical old school where there is no substitute for hard work and one must always remember one's station in life. If you are born to a janitor, then you should not pretend to become a rich movie producer or an actor. This article is not meant for that group of people because it is impossible to convince them.
The second group of folks who have heard the term stare wide eyed at the people who actually live by this motto. They dream about it as they sleep and even when they are awake most of the time. This article is for them; the dreamers. You see, it is them who are the innovators; people who change the world because they believe in something. Let me tell these people that this 1Y0-A09 practice exam maxim is very true. It is possible to fake it till you make it and because of the basic facts of human psychology.
"Fake it till you make it" is basically how con-men operate. People will believe you to be anything you believe yourself to be. Unless you display outward signs of mental illness, if you say you are a rich oil baron then people have no reason to distrust you. If you are wearing a well cut suit and expensive sunglasses when you say you are a rich oil baron then you can probably fool most people.
But the key is not fooling other people, it is fooling yourself but in a good way. Once You believe that you are a rich oil baron, and you start an oil company; chances are that you will indeed one day become a rich oil baron. How can I say this? Well I am talking relatively.
That means that if two people own small fledgling oil companies and one believes himself to be an oil baron whereas the other does not; the first guy is likely to succeed and have a great ride getting there. This is because while the second guy is waiting to become an oil baron before actually behaving like one, the first guy is already behaving like one and having fun with it.
This will 7003 lower his stress and promote clear thinking and remove the dreaded "what ifs" therefore increasing his chances of success. So go ahead, strut if you like. If you are faking it, then you will most likely make it too.

Fall Deeply in Love With Your Life

Let me start with an excerpt from one of my favorite books "The Invitation" by Oriah,
"When I turn my face away from the longing because of my fear of being the fool, I must work to cover the cracks in my 1Y0-700 practice exam resolve to abandon the heat of my desire. But my soul is too aligned with life to give up. Late at night when I am too weary to push away the longing, she comes looking for me, begging me to simply be with her and my fear of her. I can hear her, a small, insistent voice asking me to remember that desire lived brings ecstasy of falling more deeply in love with my own life every day. And in the moment of this remembering, no risk seems to great."
Falling in Love with your own life every day. Imagine that. Taking risks to make your life exactly how you want it to be. Happy with your choices and no regrets. Of course there are choices 1Y0-800 practice exam we wish we didn't make, or roads we took that looking back were not the best, leave all that behind you. Now is the time to make your life everything you want it to be. How? Start with....
Who Surrounds you?
Choose your friends wisely. Positive uplifting people can make all the difference. When you are with inspiring people, you too become inspired.
Your Career?
Is it time to take some new classes, read some books, attend seminars to get you excited about your profession? Or is it time to take a risk and find one that you truly enjoy.
Your Partner?
Do they nourish you? Love you? Fulfill you? Are you more joyful with them, or without them? Seek to be with your true soul mate, if you have already found him/her...you are blessed indeed.
Hobbies?
What fuels your passion? Sports? Scrapbooking? Reading? Creating? Find it. Engage in these activities regularly. Just because you are busy doesn't mean you should give up on what you enjoy most. Make the time 6401 to do what you love. If you don't find the time, no one else will find it for you.
Create your life how you want it to be. Love yourself. Love your friends. Love your Life.

Fate Versus Free Will

I personally, love the topic of fate versus free will and there have been many times in my life, as I'm sure there have been times in your life, when you have asked yourself the question; "Are we really in control of our 1Y0-308 practice exam lives?"
Whilst this is not intended to be a religious debate, I will, however, be taking a holistic approach as I go about giving you my view-point in regards to this topic. Firstly, I believe in God and that God has control over the destiny of humankind and the history of humankind on earth and that God is universal, or omnipresent. I also believe that nothing and no-one can go beyond the will of God in regard to his purpose for us. It is important for me to have stated this, as from now on, I am going to be referring to this topic on a personal level and not, in regards to humankind as a whole.
I think the best answer to this question, is yes and no.
Why do I say this?
Well, firstly, there are certain things in life, call them circumstances, call them situations, call them facts, that we are born into and inherit and for which, 1Y0-A19 practice exam we can choose to believe, we have no control over. For instance; our family, our race, our religion, our sex, our nationality, our looks, our intelligence, our personal strengths (gifts and yes we all have them) and weaknesses, our living standards and income-class. All of these things affect, to a certain extent, who we are.
Why do I say, "To a certain extent?"
I say this, because fate, as I see it, is not cast in stone.
I firmly believe that God gives each of us free will and because of this, we each have a direct and conscious say and affect, in how we walk the path of our life.
We can choose, therefore, to be victors or victims of the circumstances that life deals us. Whether we ultimately make a success of our lives, depends largely, upon ourselves.
Another way to view this, is to picture yourself in a large room. The room can signify your current situation, or circumstance. The room, however, has many closed doors for you to choose from, this is your free will. Each door leads to another room which, in turn, has more doors to choose from and each room has its own new and unique situation, or circumstance. For each action (opening a door), there is a reaction (a new room). We don't, however, have to leave the room we find ourselves in, although, even the lack of action, has a consequence, or reaction and not always a positive 6304 reaction.
In summary; our actions or lack of action, which are governed by our free will, has a direct effect on our lives and our eventual fate.

Father's Day - Giving or Receiving?

Are you a dad? Do you have a dad? We all do don't we!
Do you relate to Father's Day? I know guys who do and I know a lot of fathers who don't mainly because of its commerciality. It just one 156-910.71 practice exam big buy, buy, buy phenomenon.
This was my outlook for years and years. I managed quite successfully (sometimes) to get the message through that a telephone call or a card will do. It's amazing how one's children forget things like this and only after 12 months. And there I would be, minding my own business, and a child daughter arrives with package in hand. My protestations never went far.
It's not that I was a bah humbug type of person, it was more to do with the notion that for me it was no big deal. In those days though, I was different person than I am today. What I missed back then was that it was important to my daughters that they remembered me on that day.
So the real change happened to me a about 18 months ago, 6 months before Fathers Day.
I had one of those ah ha moments with respect to my daughters.
Let me explain.
The ah-ha moment happened after a conversation I had with each daughter. I decided that they were old enough to look after themselves and I told them so. I suggested that if they wanted advice from me they would have to ask for it, I was never going to give unsolicited advice again. Now that, in itself, is story 1Y0-259 practice exam for another time. What happened after these conversations was quite extraordinary---something new developed in my relationship with my daughters. There was a new respect, a deeper connection and a more developed love. It has been incredible.
So what has this to do with Fathers Day?
I made a decision that Fathers Day was not only a celebration of my daughters' relationship with me, it would also be a celebration of my gratitude for having two beautiful daughters who are such an important part of my life.
To put it simply, I would thank them for being so special to me.
How does one do this? Well, I had to think about that because I didn't want it to become commercial. I wanted it special. Last year, I got to work and engraved two small perspex plates with a quote (from me) which I attached to a small timber block, wrapped them in paper with a card and presented it too them. It was a lovely occasion, one that I will remember for a long time, and I notice both my daughters still have their gifts.
This year, what am I doing? Artwork, especially for them. Yes, the masterpieces are done, took me a couple of days and I finished them a few days before father's day.
Call to Action.

Your call to action is to understand that what you give, you receive hundreds of times over. Every day, have gratitude for the small wonderful things in your life, like the sound of your child's laughter, the look your son or daughter gives you when you communicate with him or her, and how he or she feels to you when you give them a hug.
Don't have access to your children? Maybe you need to give me or someone a call, especially if you need a bit of help.
What I do when I receive my gift from my 6301 daughters is give something in return that reminds them that they are so special to me.
And of course, the great stuff that happens to me as I'm preparing their gifts is work bottling, I love that feeling.

Fear is a Bully, Put it in Its Place

On your death bed, who would you want to be comforted by; your achievements or your fears? You bet your fears are going to be there if you never got rid of them. If it lives in you, where else do you 156-715.70 practice exam expect it to be?
Have you ever put someone in their place because they lied to you; disrespected you or say something about you that you know for a fact is not true? That's what we need to do with fear. Put it in its place, now.
Fear does not exist in the world. It is not tangible. You cannot identify fear on the streets or anywhere and say; that is fear of rejection, looking good. Or that is fear of failure, wow, looking hot. Fear is an illusion and we need to wake up out of our illusion and put fear in its proper place - out of our lives. Fear is an invisible bully. If you have allowed it to rule your life, then you have allowed it to bully you around.
The way to get rid of fear permanently is to face it, head on. Remember the saying, do the thing you fear and the death of fear is certain. When you do the thing you fear, fear will back 156-215.71 practice exam off, because you assert yourself as the one in control. So the solution then becomes simply: if you fear something, do it anyway. If you feel discomfort because of your doubts and insecurities do what you fear anyway. Challenge fear. Let fear fear you, not you fear fear. When fear wants to embody you, it will be afraid because it realizes you are secure in who you are; you know what you want and you are going after it. What you say to yourself also gives you strength against fear. Be assertive to the negative voices in your mind. Develop your own mental weapon against negative influences that sieve through to your subconscious.
Make two columns on a black page. On one side write three to five goals you absolutely must achieve. The other side put your doubts, insecurities, excuses. Which column would be prefer to fuel. If you are not on the path to achieving what you want ultimately, then fear is already winning. Choose your goals and not doubts. Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we often could win, by fearing to attempt. When you decide against achieving a goal and create excuses why you can not do the very thing that 6209 you know you want, then you have decided to choose fear. Who is fear anyway to tell you that you can't do something. The choice is yours. You choose.

Fears Did This to Me Too! And You?

One of my biggest passions is to help people to start designing and living the life of their dreams. We can all do this, as we were all born with the same tools and we have the same potential, even 156-707.70 practice exam when we come different societal and cultural backgrounds! I am unique in a way that from my school mates, I am the only one living in a different country, the only one that created his own business, and the only who is creating more from his life, and all of this know that my family was quite poor, and I have only a limited academic education. It took massive steps and faith to arrive here, even if it was, until recently, unconscious.
There are many reasons why people are not living this way, e.g. by design. Fears, limiting beliefs, lack of being in power, societal beliefs and conditioning, inner question, lack of responsibility and response-ability, lack of true purpose.
In a recent series of blog, I focused a lot on Fears! Why? Because first, it is my personal experience, and in the past, no matter what I was doing, I always managed to turn something great into a disaster... it is called sabotaging! Oh, yes, I did sabotage lots of things in my life, and thus attracting misery on me... getting myself being fired, losing money, destroying big business potentials, but also on a deeper level, making myself being unworthy of anything, and putting me in a 156-708.70 practice exam state of neediness (by creating a problem, so that I will get attention), and destroying the things that were the most wonderful in my life, destroying my most amazing relationship!
Oh, yes and all of this out of one thing that I created, and this is Fear, and letting fear control my life, and letting it develop these movies of may happen! And guess what? All this activates the Law of Attraction by attracting more of this, or even some of the potential outcomes of my self made and fear-induced movies!
Is this a way of living? Does this resonate with you? Are you letting your fears controlling you? Did you sabotage things in the past? Oh, I guess that most of you have experienced this! And most of the people of this planet are living their lives constrained by these fears, and lead them to a mediocre life, in which they are not taking the steps towards an easier life and more enjoyable life! Isn't what life is about? To live a extraordinary experience, in full harmony with our dreams, our desires, and enjoy it at each moment?
I am so glad to share this with you, as I may trigger something in you that will help you towards a better life for you, and your desires, and help you taking these actions that will make a real difference in your life!
And on the way, I am sharing some of the things I am doing, and I am not saying that fears are gone from my life, but I can now be more conscious of them, and I can better take decisions in my life, and not to give up on my dreams!
I really hope that I am giving you some inspiration for your life, 6207 and maybe the courage to take the actions you deserve to take to grow into the wonderful human being you are!
Feel free to watch these videos again and again, and I am really looking forward to continuing this life journey with you!
From my heart, Bertrand